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Synastry aspect · 90° · orb 8°

Lilith Square Venus Synastry

Lilith square Venus in synastry means one partner's Lilith sits about 90° from the other's Venus (orb ±8°), an angle read as friction. It turns up in 8.9% of couples born within five years of each other.

Each side on its own first: Venus in a birth chart and birth chart calculator.

In couples
8.9% about 1 in 11
Either way round
17.02% both ways: 0.78%
Angle
90° 3 signs apart · orb ±8°
Birth time
Not needed the date sets it

Simulation of 3 million couples, NASA JPL DE440.

The same aspect with one of these planets: Lilith square Uranus, Lilith square Moon, Lilith square Mars, Lilith square Saturn, Juno square Venus, Midheaven square Venus, Mercury square Venus and Sun square Venus.

Lilith Square Venus Synastry: Meaning and How Common It Is

Checked against chance

How common is Lilith square Venus in synastry?

Lilith square Venus, counted three ways
Lilith square Venus, counted three ways Lilith square Venus, counted three ways: Couples ≤ 5 yrs apart 8.9%, Any two people, 1940–2010 8.89%, Planets spread evenly 8.89%. Couples ≤ 5 yrs apartCouples ≤ 5 yrs apart: 8.9%8.9%Any two people, 1940–2010Any two people, 1940–2010: 8.89%8.89%Planets spread evenlyPlanets spread evenly: 8.89%8.89%Source: AstroHot simulation, 3 million pairs, NASA JPL DE440astrohot.com Couples ≤ 5 yrs apartCouples ≤ 5 yrs apart: 8.9%8.9%Any two people, 1940–2010Any two people, 1940–2010: 8.89%8.89%Planets spread evenlyPlanets spread evenly: 8.89%8.89%Source: AstroHot simulation, 3 million pairs, NASA JPL DE440astrohot.com

The age gap changes little: 8.72% to 9.05% at any gap up to 40 years.

How the odds are calculated →

By sign

Which signs make Lilith square Venus

Sign pairs that make Lilith square Venus (shaded)
Sign pairs that make Lilith square Venus (shaded) Lilith in Aries: Venus in Cancer or Capricorn; Lilith in Taurus: Venus in Leo or Aquarius; Lilith in Gemini: Venus in Virgo or Pisces; Lilith in Cancer: Venus in Aries or Libra; Lilith in Leo: Venus in Taurus or Scorpio; Lilith in Virgo: Venus in Gemini or Sagittarius; Lilith in Libra: Venus in Cancer or Capricorn; Lilith in Scorpio: Venus in Leo or Aquarius; Lilith in Sagittarius: Venus in Virgo or Pisces; Lilith in Capricorn: Venus in Aries or Libra; Lilith in Aquarius: Venus in Taurus or Scorpio; Lilith in Pisces: Venus in Gemini or Sagittarius. Venus’ sign →Lilith’s sign →AriTauGemCanLeoVirLibScoSagCapAquPisAriLilith in Aries, Venus in AriesLilith in Aries, Venus in TaurusLilith in Aries, Venus in GeminiLilith in Aries, Venus in Cancer — forms itLilith in Aries, Venus in LeoLilith in Aries, Venus in VirgoLilith in Aries, Venus in LibraLilith in Aries, Venus in ScorpioLilith in Aries, Venus in SagittariusLilith in Aries, Venus in Capricorn — forms itLilith in Aries, Venus in AquariusLilith in Aries, Venus in PiscesTauLilith in Taurus, Venus in AriesLilith in Taurus, Venus in TaurusLilith in Taurus, Venus in GeminiLilith in Taurus, Venus in CancerLilith in Taurus, Venus in Leo — forms itLilith in Taurus, Venus in VirgoLilith in Taurus, Venus in LibraLilith in Taurus, Venus in ScorpioLilith in Taurus, Venus in SagittariusLilith in Taurus, Venus in CapricornLilith in Taurus, Venus in Aquarius — forms itLilith in Taurus, Venus in PiscesGemLilith in Gemini, Venus in AriesLilith in Gemini, Venus in TaurusLilith in Gemini, Venus in GeminiLilith in Gemini, Venus in CancerLilith in Gemini, Venus in LeoLilith in Gemini, Venus in Virgo — forms itLilith in Gemini, Venus in LibraLilith in Gemini, Venus in ScorpioLilith in Gemini, Venus in SagittariusLilith in Gemini, Venus in CapricornLilith in Gemini, Venus in AquariusLilith in Gemini, Venus in Pisces — forms itCanLilith in Cancer, Venus in Aries — forms itLilith in Cancer, Venus in TaurusLilith in Cancer, Venus in GeminiLilith in Cancer, Venus in CancerLilith in Cancer, Venus in LeoLilith in Cancer, Venus in VirgoLilith in Cancer, Venus in Libra — forms itLilith in Cancer, Venus in ScorpioLilith in Cancer, Venus in SagittariusLilith in Cancer, Venus in CapricornLilith in Cancer, Venus in AquariusLilith in Cancer, Venus in PiscesLeoLilith in Leo, Venus in AriesLilith in Leo, Venus in Taurus — forms itLilith in Leo, Venus in GeminiLilith in Leo, Venus in CancerLilith in Leo, Venus in LeoLilith in Leo, Venus in VirgoLilith in Leo, Venus in LibraLilith in Leo, Venus in Scorpio — forms itLilith in Leo, Venus in SagittariusLilith in Leo, Venus in CapricornLilith in Leo, Venus in AquariusLilith in Leo, Venus in PiscesVirLilith in Virgo, Venus in AriesLilith in Virgo, Venus in TaurusLilith in Virgo, Venus in Gemini — forms itLilith in Virgo, Venus in CancerLilith in Virgo, Venus in LeoLilith in Virgo, Venus in VirgoLilith in Virgo, Venus in LibraLilith in Virgo, Venus in ScorpioLilith in Virgo, Venus in Sagittarius — forms itLilith in Virgo, Venus in CapricornLilith in Virgo, Venus in AquariusLilith in Virgo, Venus in PiscesLibLilith in Libra, Venus in AriesLilith in Libra, Venus in TaurusLilith in Libra, Venus in GeminiLilith in Libra, Venus in Cancer — forms itLilith in Libra, Venus in LeoLilith in Libra, Venus in VirgoLilith in Libra, Venus in LibraLilith in Libra, Venus in ScorpioLilith in Libra, Venus in SagittariusLilith in Libra, Venus in Capricorn — forms itLilith in Libra, Venus in AquariusLilith in Libra, Venus in PiscesScoLilith in Scorpio, Venus in AriesLilith in Scorpio, Venus in TaurusLilith in Scorpio, Venus in GeminiLilith in Scorpio, Venus in CancerLilith in Scorpio, Venus in Leo — forms itLilith in Scorpio, Venus in VirgoLilith in Scorpio, Venus in LibraLilith in Scorpio, Venus in ScorpioLilith in Scorpio, Venus in SagittariusLilith in Scorpio, Venus in CapricornLilith in Scorpio, Venus in Aquarius — forms itLilith in Scorpio, Venus in PiscesSagLilith in Sagittarius, Venus in AriesLilith in Sagittarius, Venus in TaurusLilith in Sagittarius, Venus in GeminiLilith in Sagittarius, Venus in CancerLilith in Sagittarius, Venus in LeoLilith in Sagittarius, Venus in Virgo — forms itLilith in Sagittarius, Venus in LibraLilith in Sagittarius, Venus in ScorpioLilith in Sagittarius, Venus in SagittariusLilith in Sagittarius, Venus in CapricornLilith in Sagittarius, Venus in AquariusLilith in Sagittarius, Venus in Pisces — forms itCapLilith in Capricorn, Venus in Aries — forms itLilith in Capricorn, Venus in TaurusLilith in Capricorn, Venus in GeminiLilith in Capricorn, Venus in CancerLilith in Capricorn, Venus in LeoLilith in Capricorn, Venus in VirgoLilith in Capricorn, Venus in Libra — forms itLilith in Capricorn, Venus in ScorpioLilith in Capricorn, Venus in SagittariusLilith in Capricorn, Venus in CapricornLilith in Capricorn, Venus in AquariusLilith in Capricorn, Venus in PiscesAquLilith in Aquarius, Venus in AriesLilith in Aquarius, Venus in Taurus — forms itLilith in Aquarius, Venus in GeminiLilith in Aquarius, Venus in CancerLilith in Aquarius, Venus in LeoLilith in Aquarius, Venus in VirgoLilith in Aquarius, Venus in LibraLilith in Aquarius, Venus in Scorpio — forms itLilith in Aquarius, Venus in SagittariusLilith in Aquarius, Venus in CapricornLilith in Aquarius, Venus in AquariusLilith in Aquarius, Venus in PiscesPisLilith in Pisces, Venus in AriesLilith in Pisces, Venus in TaurusLilith in Pisces, Venus in Gemini — forms itLilith in Pisces, Venus in CancerLilith in Pisces, Venus in LeoLilith in Pisces, Venus in VirgoLilith in Pisces, Venus in LibraLilith in Pisces, Venus in ScorpioLilith in Pisces, Venus in Sagittarius — forms itLilith in Pisces, Venus in CapricornLilith in Pisces, Venus in AquariusLilith in Pisces, Venus in PiscesSource: tropical zodiac, counted by signastrohot.com

To check it by degree: Lilith at 10° Capricorn makes the square with Venus anywhere from 2° to 18° of Aries or Libra — the 90° angle give or take 8°. The grid goes by sign, but the square also forms across a sign line: Lilith at 1° Capricorn and Venus at 29° Pisces are 88° apart, a sextile by sign.

Between two people

What does Lilith square Venus mean in synastry?

Magnetic and destabilising. The attraction is strong precisely because it challenges what the Venus person thinks they want, and jealousy or taboo often enter the story. The Venus person may feel drawn to something they also disapprove of, and the Lilith person may feel desired but not respected. The push and pull keeps the attraction alive but rarely lets it settle; honest talk about jealousy and boundaries helps, and the aspect depends on how Lilith was calculated.

The usual mistake

Where does Lilith square Venus usually go wrong?

The pull is strongest where the Venus person disapproves, so jealousy and taboo keep the attraction alive and the trust low.

Over time

How Lilith square Venus plays out over time

  1. Early on. A magnetic attraction that challenges what the Venus person thought they wanted.
  2. Under pressure. Jealousy and taboo keep the pull alive and the trust low.
  3. Years in. It works when the attraction is accepted openly rather than fought, and trust is built deliberately.

Lilith and Venus at other angles

At any angle: Affection meeting what refuses to be tamed. Black Moon Lilith is a calculated point, not a body, and in synastry it is read as the part of a person that will not conform — which makes this a pairing of fascination.

The square among the Lilith–Venus angles, % of couples
The square among the Lilith–Venus angles, % of couples The square among the Lilith–Venus angles, % of couples: Sextile 60° 6.64%, Square 90° 8.9%, Trine 120° 8.89%, Quincunx 150° 3.33%, Opposition 180° 4.47%. Sextile 60°Sextile 60°: 6.64%6.64%Square 90°Square 90°: 8.9%8.9%Trine 120°Trine 120°: 8.89%8.89%Quincunx 150°Quincunx 150°: 3.33%3.33%Opposition 180°Opposition 180°: 4.47%4.47%Source: AstroHot simulation, 3 million pairs, NASA JPL DE440astrohot.com Sextile 60°Sextile 60°: 6.64%6.64%Square 90°Square 90°: 8.9%8.9%Trine 120°Trine 120°: 8.89%8.89%Quincunx 150°Quincunx 150°: 3.33%3.33%Opposition 180°Opposition 180°: 4.47%4.47%Source: AstroHot simulation, 3 million pairs, NASA JPL DE440astrohot.com
Opposition 180° · 4.47% of couples Trine 120° · 8.89% of couples Sextile 60° · 6.64% of couples Quincunx 150° · 3.33% of couples

Next to Lilith square Venus in our list of 382, which runs from the most asked-about down.

Mercury square Saturn 90° · 8.87% of couples Pluto sextile Sun 60° · 6.65% of couples Pluto trine Saturn 120° · 9.01% of couples Ascendant trine Pluto 120° · 7.67% of couples

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