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Synastry aspect · 90° · orb 8°

Lilith Square Mars Synastry

Lilith square Mars in synastry means one partner's Lilith sits about 90° from the other's Mars (orb ±8°), an angle read as friction. It turns up in 8.9% of couples born within five years of each other.

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In couples
8.9% about 1 in 11
Either way round
16.93% both ways: 0.87%
Angle
90° 3 signs apart · orb ±8°
Birth time
Not needed the date sets it

Simulation of 3 million couples, NASA JPL DE440.

The same aspect with one of these planets: Lilith square Moon, Lilith square Saturn, Lilith square Venus, Lilith square Uranus, Mars square Mercury, Mars square Sun, Juno square Mars and Ascendant square Mars.

Lilith Square Mars Synastry: Meaning and How Common It Is

Checked against chance

How common is Lilith square Mars in synastry?

Lilith square Mars, counted three ways
Lilith square Mars, counted three ways Lilith square Mars, counted three ways: Couples ≤ 5 yrs apart 8.9%, Any two people, 1940–2010 8.88%, Planets spread evenly 8.89%. Couples ≤ 5 yrs apartCouples ≤ 5 yrs apart: 8.9%8.9%Any two people, 1940–2010Any two people, 1940–2010: 8.88%8.88%Planets spread evenlyPlanets spread evenly: 8.89%8.89%Source: AstroHot simulation, 3 million pairs, NASA JPL DE440astrohot.com Couples ≤ 5 yrs apartCouples ≤ 5 yrs apart: 8.9%8.9%Any two people, 1940–2010Any two people, 1940–2010: 8.88%8.88%Planets spread evenlyPlanets spread evenly: 8.89%8.89%Source: AstroHot simulation, 3 million pairs, NASA JPL DE440astrohot.com

The age gap changes little: 8.54% to 9.31% at any gap up to 40 years.

How the odds are calculated →

By sign

Which signs make Lilith square Mars

Sign pairs that make Lilith square Mars (shaded)
Sign pairs that make Lilith square Mars (shaded) Lilith in Aries: Mars in Cancer or Capricorn; Lilith in Taurus: Mars in Leo or Aquarius; Lilith in Gemini: Mars in Virgo or Pisces; Lilith in Cancer: Mars in Aries or Libra; Lilith in Leo: Mars in Taurus or Scorpio; Lilith in Virgo: Mars in Gemini or Sagittarius; Lilith in Libra: Mars in Cancer or Capricorn; Lilith in Scorpio: Mars in Leo or Aquarius; Lilith in Sagittarius: Mars in Virgo or Pisces; Lilith in Capricorn: Mars in Aries or Libra; Lilith in Aquarius: Mars in Taurus or Scorpio; Lilith in Pisces: Mars in Gemini or Sagittarius. 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in Leo, Mars in CapricornLilith in Leo, Mars in AquariusLilith in Leo, Mars in PiscesVirLilith in Virgo, Mars in AriesLilith in Virgo, Mars in TaurusLilith in Virgo, Mars in Gemini — forms itLilith in Virgo, Mars in CancerLilith in Virgo, Mars in LeoLilith in Virgo, Mars in VirgoLilith in Virgo, Mars in LibraLilith in Virgo, Mars in ScorpioLilith in Virgo, Mars in Sagittarius — forms itLilith in Virgo, Mars in CapricornLilith in Virgo, Mars in AquariusLilith in Virgo, Mars in PiscesLibLilith in Libra, Mars in AriesLilith in Libra, Mars in TaurusLilith in Libra, Mars in GeminiLilith in Libra, Mars in Cancer — forms itLilith in Libra, Mars in LeoLilith in Libra, Mars in VirgoLilith in Libra, Mars in LibraLilith in Libra, Mars in ScorpioLilith in Libra, Mars in SagittariusLilith in Libra, Mars in Capricorn — forms itLilith in Libra, Mars in AquariusLilith in Libra, Mars in PiscesScoLilith in Scorpio, Mars in AriesLilith in Scorpio, Mars in TaurusLilith in Scorpio, Mars in GeminiLilith in Scorpio, Mars in CancerLilith in Scorpio, Mars in Leo — forms itLilith in Scorpio, Mars in VirgoLilith in Scorpio, Mars in LibraLilith in Scorpio, Mars in ScorpioLilith in Scorpio, Mars in SagittariusLilith in Scorpio, Mars in CapricornLilith in Scorpio, Mars in Aquarius — forms itLilith in Scorpio, Mars in PiscesSagLilith in Sagittarius, Mars in AriesLilith in Sagittarius, Mars in TaurusLilith in Sagittarius, Mars in GeminiLilith in Sagittarius, Mars in CancerLilith in Sagittarius, Mars in LeoLilith in Sagittarius, Mars in Virgo — forms itLilith in Sagittarius, Mars in LibraLilith in Sagittarius, Mars in ScorpioLilith in Sagittarius, Mars in SagittariusLilith in Sagittarius, Mars in CapricornLilith in Sagittarius, Mars in AquariusLilith in Sagittarius, Mars in Pisces — forms itCapLilith in Capricorn, Mars in Aries — forms itLilith in Capricorn, Mars in TaurusLilith in Capricorn, Mars in GeminiLilith in Capricorn, Mars in CancerLilith in Capricorn, Mars in LeoLilith in Capricorn, Mars in VirgoLilith in Capricorn, Mars in Libra — forms itLilith in Capricorn, Mars in ScorpioLilith in Capricorn, Mars in SagittariusLilith in Capricorn, Mars in CapricornLilith in Capricorn, Mars in AquariusLilith in Capricorn, Mars in PiscesAquLilith in Aquarius, Mars in AriesLilith in Aquarius, Mars in Taurus — forms itLilith in Aquarius, Mars in GeminiLilith in Aquarius, Mars in CancerLilith in Aquarius, Mars in LeoLilith in Aquarius, Mars in VirgoLilith in Aquarius, Mars in LibraLilith in Aquarius, Mars in Scorpio — forms itLilith in Aquarius, Mars in SagittariusLilith in Aquarius, Mars in CapricornLilith in Aquarius, Mars in AquariusLilith in Aquarius, Mars in PiscesPisLilith in Pisces, Mars in AriesLilith in Pisces, Mars in TaurusLilith in Pisces, Mars in Gemini — forms itLilith in Pisces, Mars in CancerLilith in Pisces, Mars in LeoLilith in Pisces, Mars in VirgoLilith in Pisces, Mars in LibraLilith in Pisces, Mars in ScorpioLilith in Pisces, Mars in Sagittarius — forms itLilith in Pisces, Mars in CapricornLilith in Pisces, Mars in AquariusLilith in Pisces, Mars in PiscesSource: tropical zodiac, counted by signastrohot.com

To check it by degree: Lilith at 10° Scorpio makes the square with Mars anywhere from 2° to 18° of Leo or Aquarius — the 90° angle give or take 8°. The grid goes by sign, but the square also forms across a sign line: Lilith at 1° Scorpio and Mars at 29° Capricorn are 88° apart, a sextile by sign.

Between two people

What does Lilith square Mars mean in synastry?

Attraction turns into power struggles, provocation and anger. Each person can bring out a side of the other that feels out of control. The intensity can be addictive, which makes it easy to stay in cycles of fighting and making up. Clear limits around respect and consent are essential, and Lilith's calculated position varies between methods, so check whether the aspect is really there.

The usual mistake

Where does Lilith square Mars usually go wrong?

Fighting and making up becomes the rhythm. The intensity feels like proof of passion, and respect erodes a little with every round.

Over time

How Lilith square Mars plays out over time

  1. Early on. Charged from the first meeting: flirting edges into provocation, and both feel slightly out of control.
  2. Under pressure. Fights flare fast and end in reconciliation that feels like proof of passion.
  3. Years in. It lasts when respect is protected — no humiliation, no scorekeeping — and the intensity has a safer outlet.

Lilith and Mars at other angles

At any angle: Black Moon Lilith, raw instinct and taboo, meets the other person's Mars, drive and desire. This is among the most sexually charged contacts in synastry, and among the most combative.

The square among the Lilith–Mars angles, % of couples
The square among the Lilith–Mars angles, % of couples The square among the Lilith–Mars angles, % of couples: Sextile 60° 6.76%, Square 90° 8.9%, Trine 120° 8.84%, Opposition 180° 4.29%. Sextile 60°Sextile 60°: 6.76%6.76%Square 90°Square 90°: 8.9%8.9%Trine 120°Trine 120°: 8.84%8.84%Opposition 180°Opposition 180°: 4.29%4.29%Source: AstroHot simulation, 3 million pairs, NASA JPL DE440astrohot.com Sextile 60°Sextile 60°: 6.76%6.76%Square 90°Square 90°: 8.9%8.9%Trine 120°Trine 120°: 8.84%8.84%Opposition 180°Opposition 180°: 4.29%4.29%Source: AstroHot simulation, 3 million pairs, NASA JPL DE440astrohot.com
Trine 120° · 8.84% of couples Opposition 180° · 4.29% of couples Sextile 60° · 6.76% of couples

Next to Lilith square Mars in our list of 382, which runs from the most asked-about down.

Moon square Neptune 90° · 8.88% of couples Mars square Uranus 90° · 9.03% of couples Saturn trine Sun 120° · 8.92% of couples Mercury trine Venus 120° · 8.86% of couples

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