Diamond
The hardest natural substance — but hardness is not toughness. A diamond will scratch anything, and still cleave if struck along its grain.
Traditionally associated with clarity, permanence and commitment.
Care. Soapy water and a soft brush — diamond attracts grease and loses sparkle fast. Safe in ultrasonic.
Spotting a fake. The fog test is the quick one: breathe on it. Diamond clears almost instantly while cubic zirconia stays fogged a second longer; moissanite clears nearly as fast as diamond, so the fog test alone will not catch it. Moissanite also shows doubled facet edges under magnification.